rossielassie
County: Roscommon
Posts: 196

567700
It happened to me lately. He broke up with me, but its not until now that i found out about it.

Forget about him get out and enjoy yourself!

beer baron (Cavan) - Posts: 3916 - 20/02/2010 11:25:35    567706

cheers, im sure he will realise i know now since he is a poster!

Years ago when in school i kissed a guy who had a girlfriend and it was the worst thing i even did. Felt so bad after it.
Id never do it again, so i guess it was karma.

rossielassie (Roscommon) - Posts: 672 - 20/02/2010 11:30:28    567708

topman500
County: Monaghan
Posts: 78

Been having this conversation with my friend recently. He reckons that a drunken kiss in a night club should not be taking all that bad. However I would not be impressed at all if my girlfriend done that. It is a forgivable offence some say.. Whats the opinions here??? He is with his girl about 4 years and they are both 23 now.

Topman, seeing your 'friend' is somewhat open minded and "reckons that a drunken kiss in a night club should not be taking all that bad" why then are you so worried about it?? Perhaps your friend was only trying to keep a lid on things because he knew how you would react.

Squid

PS has see done it on you before or was it just a once off.

squidword (Louth) - Posts: 2897 - 20/02/2010 11:45:12    567713

Depends if you are steady or stands?

Orlaith (Derry) - Posts: 4282 - 20/02/2010 14:33:51    567888

Depends on how serious the relationship is. Like if you're married with five kids and someone kisses someone else, I'd see it as a lot more serious than if yous were just having a laugh and someone kisses someone else.

Royal_Girl2k9 (Meath) - Posts: 2107 - 20/02/2010 14:47:06    567898

Orlaith what does stands mean?

rossielassie (Roscommon) - Posts: 672 - 20/02/2010 16:41:21    567977

Hard to explain really, anyone else care to?

Orlaith (Derry) - Posts: 4282 - 20/02/2010 21:29:42    568297

Tiger Woods I mean the (Leopard Woods) will never change his spots, he got caught not with 1 or even 2 but maybe 100 his wife should never take him back . A grovelling apology on TV is only a PUBLICITY stunt to save his career and not his Marriage.

fortyfive (Tyrone) - Posts: 5929 - 21/02/2010 11:35:38    568370

So did Mr Cole! Dirty man, Cheryl is really stunning he is mad.

Orlaith (Derry) - Posts: 4282 - 21/02/2010 15:45:51    568599

Ah ya caught me out there sqid:)...... once off very drunk and told me straight away.. was just wondering what other opinions would be.

topman500 (Monaghan) - Posts: 294 - 21/02/2010 19:10:53    568838

Unforgivable in any shape or form, i dont think this is a very nice topic anyway...

itsgreenandgold (Meath) - Posts: 312 - 21/02/2010 21:21:29    568993

everybody has different views on what cheating is exactly and i do think it depends on if your actually in a relationship or just kind of seeing someone. in saying that i would never cheat i believe if your in a relationship you should be able to be with just one person and be happy however if you cant be happy with one person your obviously not a relationship kind of person.

Beautiful.Meath (Meath) - Posts: 537 - 21/02/2010 21:24:57    568999

19/02/2010 15:56:52
Dellboypolecat
County: Tyrone
Posts: 10088

567189 It is still cheating and i know if my women did it i would be mad and would dump as would she.

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Not a reaction that I would have considered but it would certainly make a point. How public would this reaction be ?

ruanua (Donegal) - Posts: 4966 - 22/02/2010 10:35:10    569145

A drunken kiss on a night out when you've had too much too drink means absolutely nothing, happens all the time. If it happens too often then there is a problem and you should do the right thing and end your relationship. God knows how many mates I have with girlfriends who have cheated on them, fair play to those that don't but the majority do

pplocal (Tyrone) - Posts: 5878 - 22/02/2010 11:36:54    569256