Been having this conversation with my friend recently. He reckons that a drunken kiss in a night club should not be taking all that bad. However I would not be impressed at all if my girlfriend done that. It is a forgivable offence some say.. Whats the opinions here??? He is with his girl about 4 years and they are both 23 now.

topman500 (Monaghan) - Posts: 294 - 19/02/2010 15:51:35    567168

Its OK if i do it, the missus would be shown the door if she done it though. only fair

EndaMN (Westmeath) - Posts: 187 - 19/02/2010 15:54:24    567176

It is still cheating and i know if my women did it i would be mad and would dump as would she.

Dellboypolecat (Tyrone) - Posts: 15069 - 19/02/2010 15:56:52    567189

ha good man enda...

topman500 (Monaghan) - Posts: 294 - 19/02/2010 16:02:51    567197

I'm single, not sure why, but anyway almost all my mates are in relationships. Two of them cheat quite a bit on their girlfriends and then get jealous if they are seen even talking to another bloke. I don't understand it at all. Hypocrites!!!!

Adler (Monaghan) - Posts: 754 - 19/02/2010 16:05:29    567207

Dellboypolecat
County: Tyrone
Posts: 10084

567189 It is still cheating and i know if my women did it i would be mad and would dump.

Well well well! Its ok for you to do it but not her?

Loyal2TheRoyal (Meath) - Posts: 4522 - 19/02/2010 16:10:43    567214

Tiger is talking about it right now........

jimbodub (Dublin) - Posts: 20763 - 19/02/2010 16:14:01    567219

YeahI agree it is still cheating. My feelings on it would be to give her one more chance but i wouldn't be too keen on her girls nights out anymore

topman500 (Monaghan) - Posts: 294 - 19/02/2010 16:14:21    567220

any form of cheating is cheating, even a kiss.

JPM1981 (Kildare) - Posts: 825 - 19/02/2010 16:26:11    567241

EndaMaNob
County: Westmeath
Posts: 105

567176
Its OK if i do it, the missus would be shown the door if she done it though. only fair

Never a truer word spoken!

beer baron (Cavan) - Posts: 3916 - 19/02/2010 17:04:10    567300

i have recently been on the good end of the two timing fiasco- the one not in a relationship! feel like a real bunny boiler though!

passerby (Tyrone) - Posts: 724 - 19/02/2010 17:46:15    567352

Completely depends on the context..........

MesAmis (Dublin) - Posts: 13833 - 19/02/2010 18:00:07    567366

How can you trust a brid if she goes around atein the face off other lads.

Cheating is like farting in the bath, you do your to limit its effect but after a while the bubble bursts you get the full reprocussions at wonce.

Hag_and_Cheese (Tipperary) - Posts: 6103 - 19/02/2010 18:24:04    567404

Loyal2TheRoyal
County: Meath
Posts: 3292

567214
Dellboypolecat
County: Tyrone
Posts: 10084

567189 It is still cheating and i know if my women did it i would be mad and would dump.

Well well well! Its ok for you to do it but not her?



That was the first thing I noticed about his post as well, but maybe we better explain it to him?

double standards.

patrique (Antrim) - Posts: 13709 - 19/02/2010 18:36:12    567421

I made a huge mistake recently and I cheated on my boyfriend and I don't what to do.

fatman (Monaghan) - Posts: 353 - 19/02/2010 18:36:28    567422

fatman
County: Monaghan
Posts: 206

567422 I made a huge mistake recently and I cheated on my boyfriend and I don't what to do.

Theres this guy on tv called Jeremy Kyle. I suggest you go see him.

Scruffy2Donut (Cavan) - Posts: 1112 - 19/02/2010 18:45:16    567438

I wouldn do it. An if she did it i would giver the boot for sure, nvr speak to her again!!

allstar4 (Donegal) - Posts: 558 - 19/02/2010 18:51:50    567446

It is only cheating if it means something. If you can honestly say that it meant nothing it is ok.

Dr.Shephard (Leitrim) - Posts: 2187 - 19/02/2010 20:59:29    567589

It happened to me lately. He broke up with me, but its not until now that i found out about it.

rossielassie (Roscommon) - Posts: 672 - 20/02/2010 11:17:19    567700

rossielassie
County: Roscommon
Posts: 196



My heart goes out to you, really it does.

Dr.Shephard (Leitrim) - Posts: 2187 - 20/02/2010 11:21:05    567702